Drab Sex Life, Simple Ways to Spice it Up!!

As all relationships can reach points of things being stale in the sex department, why not explore safe ways to spice it up.

I would first ask you if you feel that your communication is amazing with your girlfriend or boyfriend.

Do you feel that you can say anything to her/him and it is safe and OK, vice versa? Do you feel that what you have built in the last few months or years with her/him is a non-judgmental and solid relationship? If yes, then I think you can comfortably ease her/him into ways to spice your sex life up.

Although I am no professional sex expert, I will say I did have a radio show during my college days at USC called "SC Sex Talk." HA! My Father loved that one let me tell you!!

On your quest to spice it up,  I would first go out a purchase a beautiful Chinese silk box of some sort. Go to

a "Papyrus" type of place and buy a pretty box for you both that will be your little love box to store under your bed.

Inside the love box, I want you to buy certain things that will help spice things up. Go to a high end place like online like Jimmy Jane to get some sexy items.

For instance:

http://www.jimmyjane.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=4&products_id=11

http://www.jimmyjane.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=22&products_id=57

http://www.jimmyjane.com/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=13&products_id=53

We are talking about things that will make her comfortable with it, like lotions, candles, nd a sexy blindfold....not weird stuff that will freak her out.

Maybe also go out a buy a "Karma Sutra" book on well, need I say more?

Stick all of these little things in the Love Box and when she comes home from work on a Friday night, why don't you make her a coupon for a "romantic us weekend."

Have some champagne chilled in the fridge, nice French cheeses, fresh baguette, and chocolates.

Draw her a bubble bath, feed her, drink with her, bathe with her, and then later present her with the Love Box.

Don't tell her that you are bored with how stagnate things are, instead, tell her how pretty she is and that you thought it would be sexy to try new things as a couple. The key word  here is how you think it would be "sexy" and fun., not that you "need" it, more it would be  exciting to experiement a little bit.

Simple things like touch, exploration, reading the book together, and creating a very safe and intimate setting will lead a connection on a deeper, more meangingful  level.