Top Ten Signs He's Interested In You

Ladies,

One of the most popular questions on GirlsAskGuys.com is, “Does he like me?” Guys can exhibit strange behaviors and throw confusing signs our way so I decided to decode the signals and expose the truth once and for all!

Thousands of men give their honest opinions in the GirlsAskGuys question, answer and advice portal. You can trust that the tips I’ve compiled here are collected from THE definitive source – real-world guys. So here goes…

Top 10 Signs He’s Interested in You

Decoding Men’s Mixed Signals

1. Body Language
He leans toward you, lightly touches your arm or back, mimics movements you make and possibly puts his arm around your shoulders.

DECODED: He is expressing his interest by flirting through body language.

2. The Eyes Have It
You catch him staring at you on occasion and his eye contact lingers longer than normal when he talks to you.

DECODED: He is charmed by your personality and, simply put, likes looking at you.

3. Wherever You Go, He Is Often Around You
When you walk down the hall, you see him standing around. When you go for coffee in the cafeteria, he just happened to be grabbing a snack.

DECODED: He is finding reasons and ways to be close to you, even if “close” means watching you from across the room. As Genesis5 says in his article, Signs He Likes You, Signs He Doesn’t, “It doesn't matter what he is, or is not doing, the important thing is that he is (or isn't) doing it around you."

4. Extra Attention
He ignores other people, especially women, when you are around.

DECODED: He enjoys your presence and wants to learn more about you.

5. Talking and Texting
He calls you nearly every day, talks to you for nearly (or more than) an hour or he texts you at night.

DECODED: He is thinking about you, wants to hear your voice and possibly misses you.

6. Green with Envy
He asks about the guys in your life, frowns or scowls when you speak of other men.

DECODED: He is jealous and gets angry picturing you spending time with another man.

7. Drops Everything
If you have a question about school or work, he tries to answer and if you need help, he drops everything to provide assistance.

DECODED: He is expressing his feelings by showing you that he cares and is ready and willing to help.

8. Conversations and Comments
He starts or prolongs conversations by asking goofy questions or making seemingly dumb comments.

DECODED: He is saying whatever comes in his head to keep talking to you.

9. Nervous or Shy
He fidgets, stammers, stutters, blushes or shows other signs of being nervous.

DECODED: Your close proximity gets his blood pumping and he’s not sure what to do or say because he is afraid he will make a fool of himself.

And last but certainly not least…

10. He asks you out on a date
This one is self-explanatory! If he asks you for a date it means he would like to go on a date with you.

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I hope this helps shed some light on the subject. If you have any questions, need some advice or would like to share your own expertise, we welcome our SpongeFish friends at GirlsAskGuys.com!

Happy flirting, ladies!