Got Sex?

Sex should NEVER be boring. Sex should be what we humans look forward to after a long day of work or after that grueling exam that you most likely failed. You have two options here: find a way to “work it” or take time off.



Think of sex like a dessert after a five course meal; you need to work your way through the meal until you get to the best part, which is the dessert. Now, this dessert can be you’re most delish and craved for item - the item you think about every month when aunt flow comes around. I think it's more than the bad sex that is putting a damper on this. I think you need to rework your relationship. It seems like the both of you don’t have anything in common because you’re making it like that. You are being stubborn. Spend more time with the hunk and get to know him even better. Play games, do flirtatious things, buy sex toys, get kinky and go all out. You are giving up way to fast on him. Put together the pieces of the puzzle just a little bit more, then have sex. Don’t go right in for the kill, make the sex worth it. Think of it as almost like you have been traveling for months and you haven’t seen your man, and once you get off that plane, your knight and shining armor is sitting there with a pack of condoms and lube. Make the sex mean something. Dur, no wonder why it’s boring, it means nothing, so work up to it. Once you establish the five course meal, indulge in the dessert. Have fun with it. Try new things, maybe even bust out your prized vibrator. Do different positions, go in the shower and make this hot! Try some foreplay and make things up. Get creative. My grandparents have kinkier sex than you. Talk to your man and discuss how you feel. You could even tell him you want to do wild things when you’re having sex, and throw him on the ground and start doing your thing. Maybe go out to Victoria’s Secret and have him pick out some sexy night wear. Both of you need to be passionate about each other and you need to WANT each other. Build up the hormones and wait it out until that right moment comes. Trust me.



If this whole “work your way up to sex and try new things” is failing, then maybe split apart. Go see other people and see what it is like. Don’t whore yourself around, just feel out your relationship with other men and see if you still think about your sexless man. There is plenty out there, and one day you will find a man that gives you multiple orgasms, and finally you can toss that prized vibrator, but for now, instead of breaking hearts and making enemies, see if you can rework the relationship, or take time off. You are young, smart and have a lot of things ahead of you in life. Stress will follow, so make sure you find that man that can give you some hot, heavy passionate sex so you can throw all your troubles away. Good luck!