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In my article about The Best Travel Experiences,
I encouraged you to go out of your way to meet other people during your
travels. Sometimes, though, it isn't easy to approach other people and
make that connection. Sometimes, people are hesitant to make the first move and engage
other people in conversations. They might not have the self-confidence
to approach someone or they might not want to bother the other person. If you are having a hard time making those connections, here are some ideas to help you get started.
1.
One of the easiest ways to strike up a conversation is to ask someone
to take your picture in front of something. If they seem friendly, ask
them if they are from the area and go from there.
2. The reverse
camera trick is great for meeting other travelers. If you see a couple
taking pictures of each other, offer to take a picture of the two of
them together. Ask them how they like their camera, and then ask about
their travels, where they are from and where they have been. They might
even be able to recommend a good restaurant or place to stay.
3. Ask a local for directions, even if you know where you are going.
4. Another reverse trick is to offer help to a fellow traveler who looks lost.
5. If you see a coat, sweater, bag or tech gadget that you admire, let the owner know and ask them about it.
6. At restaurants, ask your server questions about the area.
7.
Eat dinner at the bar in a restaurant. The bartender is right there to
talk to, and you will likely meet other people sitting next to you.
This works anywhere, but I've enjoyed it the most in non-touristy
locations where you meet the locals.
8. Sometimes just a smile or an expressive look will encourage someone else to strike up a conversation.
9. Join a local tour to meet other travelers.
10.
Go shopping where you can talk to the store owner and other customers.
Ask questions about the merchandise, or ask for opinions about
purchases. You might learn something new, and it can also lead to
conversations about other topics.
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Leave a Comment
The Uber Maker at 7:54am on Feb. 27, 2008
about 1 year ago
Great advice! When you go on a trip to any country, one of the most exciting and enjoyable experiences is meeting the people of that country. You can learn a lot from other cultures and you'll probably make some new friends while doing it! Reply...
englslady at 11:51pm on Jan. 24, 2008
about 1 year ago
Great advice, well written. Reply...
Rambling Traveler at 5:42am on Jan. 25, 2008
Thank you, engslady, I'm glad you liked it. Reply...
Michael Neril at 10:27pm on Jan. 14, 2008
about 1 year ago
I really enjoyed this advice! Thanks for sharing. Reply...
Rambling Traveler at 5:32am on Jan. 15, 2008
Thank you, Michael, and you are very welcome! Reply...