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A break-up is what is at the other side of happily
ever after. Sadly most of us get to taste this bitter pill before we
end up in that kingdom far far away. That was one bad combination of
metaphors. Anyway.
Break-ups of course leave the inevitable creation
of the Ex. It’s not really that much news. Most relationships are bound
to end eventually. This could be because of many reasons. Infidelities,
difference in interest, compatibility lost, name it. But sometimes, the
ex never really leaves us. There always seem to be the chance of
getting back together.
So do you? Well personally I believe in
second chances. You know as long as it doesn’t deal with mass murderers
but seriously. Relationships take a lot of work to maintain. For people
like us, who have been constantly searching for an ideal one, there
aren’t a lot of chances for trials and errors. So it’s natural to want
to take another shot at a relationship gone wrong. I mean you do try
more than once for everything else right? Can't get enough? Click Here Should you get back together with your ex? |
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David at 7:16pm on Mar. 29, 2008
7 months ago
My wife and I are still together after a quarter of a century both because we got back together after breaking up and, in some sense, giving each other a series of second chances. Not only forgiveness (Mostly hers towards me), but change and growth (I'm trying) towards mutual understanding (mutual), are forms of love. I say ... give peace and love a chance. Reply...
annieforster at 11:07pm on Mar. 30, 2008
wow..that's pretty romantic..some cases I know..they tend to get back together..and after few months.. they just broke up.. Reply...
David at 8:45am on Mar. 31, 2008
Well, there are no guarantees in love or life. But it's glorious work. Reply...
EmEm at 1:04am on Mar. 29, 2008
7 months ago
I would break this into two categories - the first one where people break up because of some situation and the second one where they break up because of attributes/behavior of the people involved. In the first case, a second chance will have a better chance of working out then in the second case. Situations can be changed, but people don't change unless they consciously put in a lot of work (which can be very, very difficult). Reply...
lb at 9:37am on Mar. 28, 2008
7 months ago
hm. I tend to fall on the other side of this. I think that if you break up, there's usually a reason for it and getting back into the situation just makes you repeat the situation and the painful process all over again. However, I've seen people get back together and make it work. Usually, it's because they've agreed that their priorities have changed, rather than the idea that 'this time, things will be different'. Reply...